So, you're on my Tumblr. c; <3
I hate people.
Here’s my thing on pornography and relationships: It’s a form of cheating and disrespectful.
You say you love this person, they’re the number one in your life, the most sexiest [insert gender], ect., and there you are getting off from pornography. Do you need to look at such things when you’re in a relationship with the best person in the world? It doesn’t have to deal with jealousy and insecurities, it’s out of respect for your partner; It’s disgusting, insulting, and you’re in a relationship. That behavior is absolutely disloyalty: You’re looking at another naked body and masturbating. How horrifying is it to think your partner gets sexually aroused from something they can control? You’re getting sexually pleasured from something other than your partner and that is not okay.
I just sit here sometimes like
sexism is still a thing
the fact that sexism was ever a thing
it’s beyond me
a woman pushes you out of her fucking BODY
and you grow up to be like ‘ahahaha women r stupid and weak’
i don’t get how that happens
i always get shit when i talk about this but the reason i dont tag tw is bc
a) the term ‘trigger’ is meant to refer 2 those with PTSD those w severe anxiety and/or survivors of various forms of abuse it indicates an extreme reaction 2 certain stimulus like a panic attack/flashback/blackout caused by ur brain being unable to handle the resurgence of something horrific that happened to u
b) with that being said, i dont post triggering content. i havent talked about serious triggering shit on this blog for a long time in fact i think the last time i tagged smth was when i reblogged this youtube video about domestic abuse probs like 6 months ago nowadays i just reblog pretty pictures and make fun of anons
c) i get a thousand messages everyday from ppl suggesting i should tag shit like ‘spiders, ‘blood’, ‘feet’, ‘ghosts’, etc and it seriously pisses me off that u guys really believe ‘triggering’ equals ‘it makes me uncomfortable’ im not here to make tumblr a better place for u im not even getting paid man it’s ur responsibility to take care of yourself when it comes to these random ass ‘triggers’ if u cant see a gif of a ghost on ur dash you shouldn’t be online at all
d) in fact, ive come to the conclusion that demanding one of these lame ass trigger warnings it’s just a way 2 identify yourself as even more aware even more solicitous than the person who failed to ~adequately~ provide such a ridiculous warning. when i see ppl tagging ‘tw: spiders’ i cant help but think they are not demonstrating a sensitivity towards a topic but rather they just wanna be ‘seen’ doing so 2 demand that others ‘ought’ to do the same to validate one’s politics. this whole ’trigger’ business is less about protecting ppl from potentially re-traumatizing events and more 2 do with flagging up your right-on credentials even if it means silencing those who have actually gone through actual traumatizing events.
If you can’t take two seconds to type one extra word into the tags to make sure someone doesn’t feel uncomfortable with the mention/depiction of a certain thing then you shouldn’t be on this website at all
how do these ppl survive in the real world tbh
We fucking take precautions, such as asking someone to tag a post if it contains something triggering to us. If something makes you uncomfortable you should have to see it. Tagging posts makes people feel way more safe when they’re online.
Are you starting your period or something?
— Everyone who wants to be ignored for a while.
If you are a man who thinks it’s funny to make misogynist jokes purely to make your female friends uncomfortable/angry, then you are a misogynist. It is not “just a joke.” You literally are finding humor in the discomfort and dehumanization of women. You are not helping, you are not making satire. You are just being misogynist.